The best (and most discreet) sexting apps for confidential chats

Signal is the best sexting app for most people, and it was also a favorite among our experts. This encrypted messaging app isn’t a place to find new sexting buddies, but it is a great app for discreetly chatting with people you already know and trust. (Our sister site PCMag ranked it the No. 1 secure messaging app^[1].)

Suzannah Weiss, a sex therapist and resident sexologist for Fleshy^[2], recommends Signal for users who are “concerned about hackers or leaks,” noting that it prevents advertisers and government agencies from eavesdropping on your messages. If you want to easily and safely send private messages (text, image, voice, or video) to your partner or hookup buddy^[3], then download the Signal app.

Bonus: It’s also the best free sexting app.

One of the coolest things about this app is that its open-source code is publicly available for anyone to view, so you know they aren’t reading your messages. There’s no data collection, no ads, and no affiliate marketers. “Signal stands out for its open-source design, minimal metadata retention, and built-in privacy features such as disappearing messages and screen security,” says Orenstein.

You can share images, text, or video “Stories” that disappear after 24 hours or set a custom timer for messages to disappear. You can also turn off the “Stories” feature, which is a huge plus. (I deleted Snapchat^[4] solely because I was scared that the saucy photos I sent to my partner would accidentally end up on my Story.)

And, if you’re a faster typist than texter, there’s a desktop version available for Mac that lets you link devices so you can auto-transfer your recent chat and media history. This way, you don’t have to start your conversations from scratch. Plus, the “Screen Security” feature, which is enabled by default on the Windows 11 desktop app, prevents screenshots of your chats for an extra layer of security. (You can disable it in the app’s privacy settings, if you need to.)

While Signal does require a real phone number at sign-up, it’s not visible to just anyone (unless you want it to be). You can set up a unique username and adjust your privacy settings so people can’t find you by your phone number, so you can connect with new people and remain anonymous.